Showing posts with label rules. Show all posts
Showing posts with label rules. Show all posts

Thursday, December 19, 2013

Rules of mobile communication. Part 2.


PERMITTED

" Do not call me early in the morning / late at night "

It’s not need categoricalness, but you have the right to explain that you would not answer calls and messages in those moments when you usually have asleep or has not yet woken up. It is in her interest - not to communicate with you when you're in the mood unbalanced.

"I will answer sms for an hour "

If we are not talking about those moments when you really can not answer, it's just a matter of courtesy. Forget about her for 45 minutes, but then remember and write the answer.

"Turn off phone when we are together"

You’ve met to spend time together - and she kept to look at her smartphone. Do not be angry, just suggest: "Let's turn off the phones?" Remember? Not “leave the phone” but “let’s turn off the phones." This is not an ultimatum, but a step towards each other.

VERY WELL

" Do not clear up the relationships with the help of sms "

Situation: The lady gives you claim in text message and you answer something like "do not intend to discuss it on the phone." Such a response seems normal, but she thought, "He just avoids contact with me." Therefore, explain the girl that you prefer to discuss difficult questions in person, face to face.

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Rules of mobile communication. Part 1.

As more you meet, as more predictable it becomes your communication by phone: you call her on the way to work, sms for lunch, a series of playful messages during working day, etc. Over time, it becomes a chore to which different people react in different ways: some are nostalgic for the bygone romance; others do not pay attention to the changes, while others enjoyed the stability of relations. But there are a few rules of mobile communication, which should not be forgotten in any case.

WRONG:

“Do not call and write me if I do not answer!”

Actually, yes: the relentless series of calls and messages annoy. But agree that if you ask not to pester you, she'll think you're doing something that is not so good or hiding something. Therefore, ban, but answer, “I work, I can not speak.” Well or short sms: "Call you when I will have a minute". And call.

“Do not touch my phone and read my sms!”

Need I explain that her thoughts will revolve around two options: you hang out with another girl, or you just do not trust her. And I really don't know what is worst. Expert’s advice: if it disturbs you - set a password on your phone. But remember that it's alarming.
 

Saturday, November 2, 2013

It's a Fail! or Mistakes of First Date


Hello my friend! You know that first date it's a very responsible occasion. You should know some more things about it, tips how not make mistakes.
1) Don't talk about your ex. Never! I hope it's understandable without explanation.
2) Don't smoke and drink too much. Leave it for second date or try to kick your bad habits at all. Girls don't like smokers and alcoholics and run from them as fast as they can!
3) Come alone. Any friends! Even if you are extremely shy. It will scare away her and make you three feel uncomfortable.
4) Don't pour your soul out at the first date. Don't talk too much about yourself! Talk on different abstract topics.
5) Don't impose her care or help. You know each other not for a long time and it will seem insincere.
6) Call her name. It's too earlier for "baby" or "princess". Online dating it's another thing. Real dating has its own rules.
7) Don't tell her about big amount of admirers. She will have wrong idea about you.
8)  Turn off your phone. this way you will show your lady that she is very important for you. 
9) Don't ask her personal information: address, car etc.
10) Don't talk about sex. 


Wednesday, October 23, 2013

First letter. How not make mistakes.

First letter will define your future communication so be careful when you will write it. First and the most important rule is do not be bored! Girls like men with a good sense of humor. You can read this request in every profile, believe me, so let's talk about simple rules of writing a right and attractive introduction mail
1) Call her name. Always! It
means that you are serious man and you don't correspond with a big amount of women simultaneously.  And even if it's a truth she should not find out about it ;)
2) Write just real facts of your biography. Be maximally honest with her. I hope I don't need to explain why?
3) Brevity is the soul of wit. Do you remember the main rule? Do not be bored. Write only the most important information and in the end you can ask her if it was interesting for her and what exactly does she want to know about you. To write too short first letter is better then to write too long one.
4)  Be original. Try to interest her in your person. Don't write trite expressions and cliché. Write what you really think about your new acquaintance.
5) Don't fear to be funny. Make her laughing and she is yours!
And once again - just be yourself and you will win her heart!