1) First reason of troubles is misunderstanding of each other. I mean attitude to mode
of life. It concerns that couples which didn't live together before
wedding.
Advice: Discuss the duties of wife and husband. Even if husband is
breadwinner all house work should be shared between both spouses.
2) Money. Couples which have a baby face with this problem more often. Man
before birth of the child should prove his wife that he is able to provide her
and their baby.
3) Changing the way of feelings. Men very often think that gifts, flowers and
walking hand in hand under the moon is only in the beginning of relationship.
They forget about one important thing: romance always should take a place.
4) Lack of sexual attraction. We know that prohibited thing is the most
desired. When you have access to something 24/7 it becomes not interesting.
Advice: Experiment with your sexual life, try something new, make it
various and passion will flare up with a new power.
5) Influence of parents. Of course your Mom and Dad know life better
than you, but your life you should build by your own. Share everything with
parents, ask advices, but make decision only with your second half.
You can avoid divorce for a first year of life together! You just should
remember that you need not only listen to your beloved one but understand too!
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