Unusual ways to get her interested.

Of course you can use proved ways to win heart of girl that you like, but for the most desperate guys I can offer a few ways to get her interested which can seem very strange.
1) In full swing of the date pretend that somebody has called you and you need to leave her urgently. She will not be ready for this and will stay with dim sensation of incompleteness and certainly will call you and invite you to the second date.
2) Don't hurry up to invite her on cup of coffee. Make her puzzled why don't you want her. Girl  always is sure that she is very sexual and  if she doesn't get confirmation of this in your eyes she will do everything to prove you that she is the best girl you ever met. And very soon your new acquaintance will jump into your bed with a cosmic speed.
3) Organize the best date in her life and then don't call her two - three days. Make her want something more, make her think of you all the time. Let her see your inner world. Let her think that you are perfect man and disappear on some time. It will work for sure!
Good luck, my friend!

When he is older. Part 2.

Let's continue to talk about situation when you are older than your beloved.

4) Atmosphere in family. Mature men are more indulgent than younger ones. They rare aim to change their sweethearts and not uncompromising. They have patience and flexibility which modern youth don't have.

5) Faith. Of course from man's side. Marriage on young and beautiful lady solve the problem how to show whole world that after 30 still has a strong man's power.

That's all about pluses. Now about minuses.

1) Treatment of her parents and people around you. It's less likely that father of your beloved will be happy to see as husband a man of the same age.

2) Time spending. It can be really a problem if you don't have mutual hobbies. Different tests in music, cinema and books don't add durability to family.

3) Friends. For man's friends his wife always will be too young and silly, friends of girl will see her husband hopeless old.

By the way marriage where man is older no more then 7 year is not mixed.

So, you need to decide if you are ready to all obstacles or possible troubles when you are in love with a young beautiful Russian lady. It can be the biggest happiness or biggest pain in your life. Think twice and good luck, my friend!

When he is older. Part 1.

Hello my friend! You've already understood that majority of girls on dating sites are 18-28 years old. You are probably older. Question is understandable. What to do? You have different points of views on different thing and on life in general. How to make this relationships work? And what problems you can face with?
Such kind of marriages are very popular but in spite of widespread opinion - successful. Just need to follow some conditions. At first it's a coincidence of psychotypes and of course love. Let's talk about all advantages of such unions. Today we will talk about reasons for girls. Why do they choose mature men?
1)  Material side. Maybe it's banally, but this is a first reason. Men older than 30 have a stable income more often and it's very important for women
2) Stability in general. It's a opportunity for young girl to get good education, make a career and do her business without a damage for family. Mature man appreciates peace in family and protect it from a small quarrels.
3) Children. Man is ready to become a father when he is more then 30. It's a fact. And as man is older as more he wants to have children.

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Hello my friend! I hope you've got enough advices and you are ready to make a great step forward to change your life forever. Or you've already done this. You deserve to find your love and let this winter be unforgettable, full of joy and happiness, new exciting meetings and real feelings! Find your match and online dating sites will help you in this! I do hope that this winter nobody will be alone. All the people in the world will have a couple, someone, who will warm not only their hands but and their hearts, someone to whom they can whisper "Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!" in the happiest night of the year when all dreams come true. Believe in miracle and it certainly will happen with you!

Love in distance. Part 5. Trust and Faith.

Very often remote relationships fall apart not because you can not always be together, but because of distrust and jealousy. People are starting to harass each other suspicion of treason. Part and parcel of love in the distance is the full and unconditional trust. If it is present - love will stand the test of separation. But how do you trust your partner when she is there, and you are here! In fact, it's simple: if you really love a person, then you should trust him absolutely everything. 

In long-distance relationship is very important that both believed that live together in one city, in one apartment - it's real and there is a chance to overcome the separation! It should also consider the fact that not all relationships start to last forever. The distance may be only one of the reasons that love unions no longer exist. But if this is not your case and you are sure that met true love - do not give up! And then turn away in the same wind that extinguishes a small fire, and more - helps ignite than ever.

Love in distance. Part 4. Romance.

Distance should not be an obstacle in its way. Fill your life by romantic episodes. There are millions of ways to say "I love you" or "thinking of you ". Dating site helps to send a card, flowers, candy, and countless souvenirs and even book a romantic dinner. You can think of a great many pleasant surprises, screaming about your feelings: it is the collection of "your " songs , sent by mail, and visits by Live video chat in the most frank dresses , and joint shopping trips , during which you can share your photos (MMS) and consulted about the choice of clothes. Be creative, constantly «warming up» attitude .You can arrange a real date via live video chat: light the candles around the laptop, beautifully dressed and talking to each other warm and kind words. Or keep a joint blog on the Internet and write there all the important events in your life, your feelings and experiences. An important condition - only you two should know about this blog, make it your little secret. And, you can create your own rituals of communication: whether it is the daily bedtime stories or love letters every morning - it depends only on your imagination and the desire to once again bring joy to your beloved one and to become closer to her!

Love in distance. Part 3. Planning of the joint future.

Hello my friend! You've already knew how to keep feelings fresh and hot when you are far from each other. It's very simple, actually! If you love each other and want to be together - nothing can stop you! You just should be patient and try to spend more time with your beloved woman, surround her by your gentle and care even if you live on different continents.
Guarantee of happy ending relationships at a distance - is a clear view of the joint future. Make plans, talk about your expectations, discuss when your next meeting is going to happen and how you spend it. You can create a constantly updated list of things that you are sure to do together when we see each other. This may be a list that is sent by e-mail from one partner to another, with the proviso that each appends there one or several of the planned actions.
To be continued..

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Self development. Absence of your own private life is the biggest mistake, which people make, being in separation. In my humble opinion beloved girl should not take all your life, except this relationship you can have a family, friends, work, hobbies, interests... Don't forget about this and don't "freeze" your life till your meeting with your beloved. Instead of this, develop yourself, your personality, open new opportunities, do what you always wanted to do but didn't have a time for this: learn foreign languages, dance, write, draw.. Let the time when you are not together to be a time of growth. Enjoy your life every day, think positively, and take a pleasure from all what you do!  
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Love in distance. Part 1: Communication

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Communication. The most important and in the same time difficult thing is to remain a part of life of each other. Nowadays nothing can prevent you to communicate as much as you want. Letters, chat, live video chat, phone - you have many variants to be together virtually. Tell her your news, what's happened today, tell about your new hobbies, friends, joys, anxieties and so on and ask her about her news. Also for example you can go to cinema and watch the same movie. Then laugh together and discuss some interesting moments of it. Do the same with books, interesting articles etc.

Communicate oftener! Don't be afraid to show her your feelings and thoughts! Don't be afraid to be closer!

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Signs that you must be together.

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1) You tell her such things that nobody else knows. Desire to tell your secrets means that you trust her and it's very important thing in relationships. Especially in online dating.
2) You let her see you in moments of your weakness. It's so easy to be together when everything is good! And what about your bad time? If you want to see her in the worst day of your life, it's not accident relation, believe me.
3) You accept the way she is and you don't want to change your woman. Maybe some things annoy you, but in general you like her with all merits and demerits.
4) You want to acquaint her with your parents.You are proud of your beloved one and you want to boast of her your closest people.
5) You can imagine your mutual future. You often imagine your life together and it's wonderful!
6) You are not afraid to argue with her. You know that even if you are not right, she will listen you, understand and forgive you.
7) You want to kick your main differences. You have different points of view on important things -religion, money etc, but anyway you are sure that we will find a solution and we can solve all problems together.
8) You are laughing together. Laugh is the simplest pleasure in the world! Don't refuse yourself in it!
9) You feel just magic attraction. It's obviously very important ingredient of health relationships. You should know it.
10) Beside her you can remain silent and be sad. You don't feel that you need to fill silence by conversation or another communication
11) Beside her you feel you who you are. You are calm and relaxed next to her. You can be yourself.
12) You are independent. You miss her but not much. Necessity is good but in a small amount. Another way it's obsession.
13) You are not jealous. You trust her and permit her to have hobbies and friends.
14) You feel you become better with her. She makes you feel smart, creative, attractive and cool. She  wakes your best sides up.
15) She understands you. It's simple. You feel that she understands that part of you that you can't explain and describe. It's very warm and comfortable feeling which you feel when you want to get marry.

How to be interesting for girls

I am sure you've asked yourself this question many times. So, how? It's very simple!
1) Develop yourself. Be interesting interlocutor. Read more, find out something new every day. Very soon it will be your habit, not the worst, by the way.
2) Create your resources, not just material, but also strong health, good figure. It's very important!
3) Be responsible! Show girl you are leader in all. Work, career, sport.. Show her your  ability to take decisions  and carry the responsibility.
4) Have some interesting unusual hobby. It will make you very interesting in eyes of opposite sex.
5) Be polite. Never be brutal and don't offend a girl in spite of her behavior. Don't try to proof your girl that she is wrong. It's useless time spending. And always try to understand her point of view.
6) Do not focus on one girl. Look around and maybe you will find better variant? Girls often do like this. We can do the same.;)

How long time should pass before real meeting?

Hello my friend!  Very often you ask me how long time online relationships should last but, actually, I don't know right answer. It can be 1 month or 1 year. It depends only on you and your feelings! This question is very difficult and very simple in the same time. Why? Your heart will tell you, when you will be ready for meeting in reality, it's for sure. But not many people can hear their hearts. We are so smart, so reasonable, so careful that voice of reason blocks voice of heart. We always wait for miracle but when this miracle happens we can't see it. Stay unthoughtful, stay foolish! Do crazy actions for your beloved ones! Present flowers, gifts, surprise her with your unexpected arrival,  walk all night, let yourself some day wake up in Paris and see her happily smiling face and shining eyes.. Our life is too short, remember this! Be happy today!

First date... online!

You send romantic mails each other, communicate in chat, you know her number and now every evening is finished by her tender "Good night, darling". But today is your first date. Fist date in live video chat via web camera. It's so exiting, I know, but you must be calm and confident in your power.
1) Buy good camera and adjust it. Picture should be clear and should have high resolution.
2) Add artificial light near monitor of your computer if it will need. It also will help you to get good image.
3) Clean room where video chat will be. Or at least those part of room that is seen in web camera.:)
4) Wear comfortable and not festive clothes, make your usual hairstyle, no hairspray or gel for hair. You must not have look of man who spent 3 hours in the bathroom before this date.
5) Smile!
6) Don't be nervous, calm out. She likes you not for your appearance. She likes your soul, doesn't she? Another way do you really need this girl?

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And seriously talking about online dating I can tell you just one thing. It's your world, your new reality. Be a master of your life! Stop to wait some gift from destiny. Take it in your arms! And dating site will help you! Good luck, my friend!

It's a Fail! or Mistakes of First Date

Hello my friend! You know that first date it's a very responsible occasion. You should know some more things about it, tips how not make mistakes.

1) Don't talk about your ex. Never! I hope it's understandable without explanation.

2) Don't smoke and drink too much. Leave it for second date or try to kick your bad habits at all. Girls don't like smokers and alcoholics and run from them as fast as they can!

3) Come alone. Any friends! Even if you are extremely shy. It will scare away her and make you three feel uncomfortable.

4) Don't pour your soul out at the first date. Don't talk too much about yourself! Talk on different abstract topics.

5) Don't impose her care or help. You know each other not for a long time and it will seem insincere.

6) Call her name. It's too earlier for "baby" or "princess". Online dating it's another thing. Real dating has its own rules.

7) Don't tell her about big amount of admirers. She will have wrong idea about you.

8)  Turn off your phone. this way you will show your lady that she is very important for you. 

9) Don't ask her personal information: address, car etc.

10) Don't talk about sex.